2012: Lessons Through Food

** My heart and prayers are with all the families at Sandy Hook who have lost loved ones. I hope we will take this unspeakable tragedy to do something about the state of mental health facilities and gun control in the US. My heart hurts with sadness. My family and I are praying for all those affected.” **


Kale (persistence): I know it is good for you. Yet, I cannot seem to warm up to it. But, I eat it. I add it to soups, salads, and make chips with it. I eat bits at a time. I roll my eyes (making sure the kids aren’t watching). I make a face. I eat another bite. At least, it isn’t as bad as celery.

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Kombu (grace): A new ingredient can bring new tastes to life. This simple seaweed adds umami to stock. And to top that, it is good for the heart. It has a quiet almost gentle quality about it. Letting new things can open so many new doors. (istock photo)

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Sweet corn chicken soup (comfort): At least once a week, I make sweet corn chicken soup. I make it exactly the same way, using the same ingredients. I once added a new ingredient: ginger. The little one sulked and the older one looked at me with puppy dog eyes that said, “How could you?”  There is a lot to be said for things that comfort and letting things be as they are sometimes. (istock photo)

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Talenti (change): As much as I like to try new foods, I have been stuck on the same ice-cream forever. And then I tried Talenti’s flavors. This has taught me to love but also to wander and try new things.  To remember that I haven’t yet discovered my most favorite flavor of ice cream. (photo credit: Talenti)

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Garlic (so much to learn): I make the mistake sometimes of thinking I know an ingredient well. Garlic is a perfect example. I have been using it since I was about, I don’t know, ten! I thought I knew all about garlic. Then, along came dietician and amazing author Rebecca Katz who taught me this: to benefit from garlic, you have to cut it and leave it for ten minutes before you use it. “This activates the enzyme that converts garlic’s mild-mannered unassuming alliin to its cancer-whooping alter ego, allicin.” (istock photo)

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Tea (all is well): I was lucky to visit an old teahouse in Paris this year. I sat at a table with new friends. One was visiting from Switzerland and the other from Seattle. We have known each other online but not in the real world (I am often reminded how the virtual world seems more real to me now). The minute the tea was poured, we started chatting like old friends.  Just like the cheesecake in Golden Girls. Some foods bind.

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Eggs (surprise): I learned that I could cook eggs in a bag. I thought I knew how to cook eggs: I could fry them, deep fry them, boil them, scramble them, poach them,  bake them but, I never knew I could boil them in a bag. I learned this on a culinary trip to Paris. Reminds me of why it is critical to keep an open mind…. so much to learn.

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Chicken in a plastic bowl (gratitude): A friend, who doesn’t normally cook, made a chicken curry for a dinner. He then brought some over in a plastic bowl for me to try. His face was anxious; I know that cooking was a major accomplishment. I tasted it. He wanted my opinion because I write about food for a living. “It is superb,” I said. His anxious face changed and he beamed.. a big, huge smile.

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Ramen Noodles (just plain perfect): Always remind me that the best dishes aren’t the most expensive or the most elaborate and complicated. They are the ones that bring back the best memories. (istock photo)

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Cake (pride): I am not a baker. Thankfully, I did not pass that onto my kids. My older son, now 13, baked a Tres Leches Cake for my friend’s birthday. He found the recipe on line, came with me to buy the ingredients, put them in a bag to take to New Jersey where he would bake the cake.  I glowed the entire time.

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So tell me: what has food taught you this year?

Thank you for reading and being so loving and so supportive of my work.

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38 Comments

  1. What a beautiful post, Monica. And a new way to look at what we cook and why we cook it. Sending a hug.

    1. Thanks so much. I was very touched by your post on Sandy Hook.

  2. What a fantastic post! I can’t even begin to say how much food has changed my life in 2012. I took a huge leap of faith this year and left the corporate world to launch http://manykitchens.com/, a site selling artisanal foods. I’d need 10 pages to touch on what I’ve learnt but thanks to this post for making me step back and take a look. Happy holidays to you!

  3. What a delightful post! I feel like I learn something new about food nearly every day, and then sometimes I have to unlearn it. Yesterday I learned that I enjoy sauteed Sunchokes with butter and garlic, but they don’t do nice things to my stomach afterwards.

    1. You are always so kind to me. Thank you so much! Enjoy London! I wish I was going with you!!

  4. How can food be a part of so many virtues of life..? 🙂 Is what this lovely post tells me about. Wonderful way to look at life and food both. I’ve seen it myself this year while traveling throughout India. That good food can heal, it can mend, it’ll never pretend.,! Cheers to a lovely 2012. Live to eat, Love to eat.

    1. Thank you! I have your post coming up in the new year! It is wonderful. Thank you so much!

  5. I loved this simple, but thoughtful, presentation of food, life and opportunities the year provided and you seized!

    1. Simple is charming.. dont you think 🙂

      Thank you!

  6. I just love this. There’s so many things that speak to us and often they are right in front of our faces. Something as simple as a bowl of soup or a scoop of ice cream really does reveal a lot if you’re willing to truly see it.

    Another insightful post, my friend!

  7. Thanks for inspiring me to slow down and appreciate what I am learning every day. Lovely, simple insights into daily experiences with food … and with family & friends who love it as much as you. i will share this – thank you.

  8. Monica —

    Reading this post made me reflect on all that 2012 has encompassed for me. The past three years of full-time freelance writing have taught me so much, but 2012 especially, overall, has taught me much about life.

    And food? It has further shown me that the best of loving friendships can be cemented and further enhanced when cuisines of all sorts are shared and enjoyed.

    Sincerely,

    Steve

    1. Thank you so much, Steve. I appreciate your kindness and your friendship!

  9. Thanks for another inspiring post, Monica! It is the recipe of healthy living – not only eating but also taking the time to digest and evaluate the qualities of the meal. Wish you a lot of inspiration and delicious meals for the next 12 months!

  10. Such a lovely way to relate food and what it teaches us. Tea it is the love for food connects friends oceans apart. Sending Hugs your way Monicaji.

  11. Great post! I learned a lot about cooking over the summer thanks to my weekly CSA box. (Oh, the kale. So much kale.) While there were vegetables that never grew on us, like kale, we discovered a love for roasted kohlrabi.

    p.s. I didn’t know that about garlic — I’ve always diced it last.

    1. Thanks! I know .. garlic knowledge is new to me!!

  12. Great post Monica! I love to read your articles and about your family. Thank you!
    I have had a very interesting and an eye opening year this year with food. I love to cook, growing up in India we celebrated all occasions with food. I have passed on my love of food and cooking to all my three children, not just Indian but all kinds of cuisines. The spicier the better! Six months ago my partner found out that she is pre-diabetic and was told to cut down on many types of food including some fruits!?!. She also cannot have anything with onions, garlic or spices. My first reaction to that was why bother to eat or even cook for that matter. I love to cook, I teach cooking and I LOVE to EAT! In the begenning I started cooking two separate dinners, that lasted only few days…too much work. After some recentment….I have started cooking mostly fresh vegetables, Chicken, Salmon or Talapia only using canola oil, fresh herbs such as basil, oregano and cilantro. You know what it actually taste wonderful, confession after I sprinkle some red chillie powder! Lesson: Not everything has to be cooked in spices, you don’t need coconut milk or yogurt or cream…sigh! We do treat ourselves to good vietnamese or Thai meals once a month and I do cook my favarite biryani or curry once in a while. The one thing I hate, hate hate is she lost wait and me?..I look the same UGH! At 60( in a week or so) I am still learning!!!

    1. Lovely! Thank you for sharing. You are so wonderful and I appreciate your taking the time! All the best to you both!

  13. LOL on the Kale. I still run away from it !!!

  14. Awesome post as always, Monica!! Chicken corn soup is my absolutely favorite. I would love to get your recipe for it.

      1. Post it. pretty please?

  15. Monica this is a lovely post – so much more meaningful than the usual “recap” posts that tend to start floating around this time of year. I think this year, I learned patience and persistance from both bread baking and macarons. Two very good qualities that I don’t think we can ever have enough of. Wishing you a wonderful holiday season and best wishes for a healthy, happy 2013 filled with great food!

    1. So kind of you. Many thanks! I really appreciate it.

  16. Another fabulous homage to food. Loved the Kale story and the way you describe Kombu!!

  17. That’s all deliciously written and so appealing. I’m saying this as a man who hasn’t lit his stove in 8 years, so that’s big. Thanks so much for this nourishing New Year offering.!

    1. So kind! Thank you for your kind words and for your friendship. I really appreciate it.

  18. Such a revelation about garlic. Wow!

  19. Loved this post. You’ve taught me a new way to look at food. Thanks for the tip on garlic. Wishing you and the family a happy Christmas and all the very best in 2013! Hugs.

  20. What a wonderful new way to look at food. Next year, every morsel I eat and every thing I cook, I will try to remember this.

    Happy Holidays Monica and wish you all you wish upon yourself for the New Year

  21. Beautiful piece! I love how you intertwined life’s lessons and the basic ingredients, dishes. As always, you never fail to give me something to ponder on all day, all year. Thanks for inspiring me, Monica! Happy Holidays to you & your family! Hug 🙂

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